There is No One Else Like You

Assalamualaikum...

Who cares if I'm a little bit different from the others

Have you ever look at someone else and just feel like, "if only i can be as cool as that person"? Or have you ever wonder that how come such a simple fella yet can be so extremely, awesomely, super duper famous? And then if you have felt something like these before, i'll bet you will look at yourself in the mirror and ask, "mirror, mirror on the wall, where and what am i lacking of?" Then suddenly you will feel less confident when you are in crowd, feel isolated when you are in public. And i won't be surprised if any one of you will try to change yourself in and out, pretending to be someone else just to get people's attention and impressed others. If you do, then STOP!! 

Why the hell you wanna change yourself and pretend to be someone else? Don't you know by doing so, you will make others to feel uncomfortable and feel sick when they are with you. Even you yourself will feel uneasy, never mind others.

Everyone is different, even the DNA is unique for each and everyone of us! 

Everyone is different. Different in personality, different in outfit and dressing, different in style, and others. And why should we be ashamed of ourselves if we are a bit weird, bizarre or just simply different from others. Just imagine how if we live in a world where everyone is the same. Our face, body size, the way we talk, the way we dress, and everything is the same? Not as bright and colorful as we thought it would be, right? No uniqueness. And worst, life will be so bored!

If you used to be laughed by your friends due to the things that u did different from the others, don't feel down, but you should join the laughter instead. Make those as the most memorable moments in your life where you could never stop laughing and smiling whenever you remind yourself bout them. And to make it special, since you are different among your friends as well as your surroundings, make that difference in you as your trademark, where people will recognize you just simply because of who you are and not because of whom you pretend to be. And be proud of it because that is what so special about you that others don't have!

If you already start pretending to be like everybody else, then it is not too late to stop. If you are just going to take the step of pretending, then don't proceed. Its not so cool to pretend just to make others to accept and like you. You just only fooling around with yourself. If you cannot accept who you really are, then don't expect others to do so even when you are pretending. Because it will be like so obvious, since whatever you do, it doesn't go so naturally.

Then, my dear Bonda, why does for someone that is just so simple but can be quite famous? 

Well it is just simply because they just be what they do best, being themselves. They don't even care what people will think bout them. As long as they are happy with what they are doing.You may look at them that way, that they are so super duper extra extremely awesome, but what you don't know, is that maybe they are looking at you the same way! And they are wondering the same thing when they are looking at you.

So dear readers, remember that there is only one of you. There is no such thing as photocopy. Even our fingerprints are different!

"Bukan sebagaimana yang di­sangka itu, bahkan kami berkuasa

menyusun dengan  sempurnanya segala tulang - tulang jarinya,

dan tulang  yang lebih halus dari yang lain".  

( Surah Al - Qiyamah ayat 4 )

Enjoy being yourself! Things will go the way they should that suits you very well. Yes, it is true that you cannot force someone to like or hate you. If people like you for just because of you, then live with them. If people hate you, then just simply walk away and leave them. And who knows, there might be a person that will just simply falls for you and loves you just because there is no one else like you.

Each of us has a unique set of gifts which are talents, passions, and abilities. When we tap into those gifts and share them with the world, we truly become empowered. Give the world your greatest gift ^^,