Sunday, 29 January 2012

Perkara yang Aku Menyampah Bila Usha/View FB Kawan Perempuan

Assalamualaikum..

Haaa tajuk agak sensasi dan panas!! Ya, bukan senang nak tengok aku marah-marah and aku ni sebenarnya tak suka marah pun. Actually, marah ni akan membuatkan cell-cell otak seperti neuron mati, dan lambat laun akan menyebabkan kita menjadi nyanyuk apabila tua kelak. Tapi disebabkan adanya naluri kebondaan dalam diriku ini, langsung tak jadi nak marah. Just nak tegur sebab saban hari, semakin teruk aku tengok perangai kaum aku sendiri, iaitu kaum Hawa di Facebook.






Ok first and foremost, issue gambar. Yes i know korang semua memang cute-mute, comey-lotey. Macam aku ni ha, comel jugak, bukan nak perasan tapi siapa nak puji kalau bukan diri sendiri, kan kan kan (sambilangkatangkatkening). hahaha.. Tapi sayang-sayang sekalian, asal gambar-gambar korang kat Facebook tu, aku tengok, mostly yang jebik bibir la, jelir lidah la, muncung2 la, senyum cover2 la, konon tak nak kasi nampak pipi korang tu tembam bebenor la kan, but why babe, why?? Tell me WHY??! Apakah perlu semua itu? Apakah bertambah kecomelan korang jikalau berbuat demikian? Aku tau korang semua memang fotogedik, macam aku ni haa, pantang nampak camera terus nak posing, tapi aku tak ada lah sampai nak buat-buat muka semua kejadah tu. And gambar aku semuanya meletop, sampai terlalu mahal untuk ditayangkan di Facebook. So please la babe, don't make those silly faces boleh tak? Aku bukan apa, bukannya nak sebok tepi kain korang pun. Just kadang-kadang panas jugak telinga ni bila terdengar orang lelaki, yes kaum Adam, mengutuk gambar-gambar korang tu. Aku nak bela korang pun tak boleh sebab apa yang boys cakap ni memang betul. So ini lah cara yang aku mampu buat untuk membela korang, by telling you the truth.

Next, still issue gambar. Haisshhh gambar lagi. Yelah, tak boleh dinafikan perempuan memang suka bergambar. Semalu-malu shy-shy cat aku ni pun, suka gak bergambar. Yelah, syok sebab boleh buang tabiat skali-skala. Tapi cukup la sekadar aku nak bergambar just for fun to release stress, bab nak upload tu, sorry. Only for my memory to keep, not to share to those who are not related. Tapi ni aku tengok, korang suka upload gambar-gambar korang tanpa buat sebarang penapisan. Ada tu aku tgk, elok dah 1 album kat Facebook gambar-gambar korang, nampak manis bertudung dan ada kalanya berselendang, tapi..adoiii spoil the view bila tiba-tiba at the end of the album, ada gambar korang tak pakai tudung. Bila aku tengok tu, i was like, "say what??!!"..Apa motif korang?? Sia-sia wey korang pakai tudung cantik-cantik, lelaki yang tengok gambar korang tu, walaupun 1 je gambar tak bertudung, tetap berdosa sebab korang dedahkan aurat korang. And after that macam no used, sebab korang tutup la lama mana pun kepala korang, lelaki yang pernah tengok gambar korang tu tetap dah tahu rupa korang bila tak bertudung. Tahukah korang bahawasanya rambut merupakan mahkota kedua korang? Yang hanya layak didedahkan kepada lelaki yang bukan ajnabi dan juga kepada suami korang nanti bila dah diijab kabulkan. Then ada jugak gambra korang pakai tudung, tapi baju plak berlengan pendek. Macam-macam lah korang ni. And ada plak kes songsang, which is kes untuk perempuan yang sememangnya free hair. Ada la aku view-view gambar kawan-kawan dalam Facebook, ada la kawan-kawan aku ni yang sememangnya free hair. Tapi yang lucunya, bila aku view-view album diorang, semua gambar diorang x bertudung, tapi somehow ada la terselit dua tiga gambar yang pakai tudung. Apa motif mereka, aku pun masih tak faham. Patutlah ramai yang mengatakan, bahawasanya perempuan ni memang susah untuk difahami. Yes, aku sendiri ni yang sejak azali nya perempuan, pun tak faham dengan tindakan korang tu.


Katakanlah kepada wanita yang beriman: “Hendaklah mereka menahan pandangannya, dan memelihara kemaluannya, dan janganlah mereka menampakkan perhiasannya, kecuali yang (biasa) nampak daripadanya. Dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain kudung ke dadanya, dan janganlah menampakkan perhiasannya, kecuali kepada suami mereka, atau ayah mereka, atau ayah suami mereka, atau putra-putra mereka, atau putra-putra suami mereka, atau saudara-saudara laki-laki mereka, atau putra-putra saudara laki-laki mereka, atau putra-putra saudara perempuan mereka, atau wanita-wanita Islam, atau budak-budak yang mereka miliki, atau pelayan-pelayan laki-laki yang tidak mempunyai keinginan (terhadap wanita) atau anak-anak yang belum mengerti tentang aurat wanita. Dan janganlah mereka memukulkan kakinya agar diketahui perhiasan yang mereka sembunyikan. Dan bertobatlah kamu sekalian kepada Allah, hai orang-orang yang beriman supaya kamu beruntung.
(An Nuur : 31)

"Kepada muslimat sekalian, buang cepat gambar2 kamu dalam keadaan tidak bertudung atau menampakkan aurat.. Lagi lama tersiar, lagi banyak dosa dicatat dalam buku amalan kita.. Jom pakat kembali taat pada ajaran agama kita sendiri."

Next, is about your wall post. Yes, aku memang suka menconteng-conteng dinding kat Facebook aku tu. Asal bosan je, conteng. Bosan je, conteng. Conteng je, bosan. And kadang-kadang tu benda mengarut and merapu jugak, tak de lah selalu berunsurkan ilmiah or Islamiah. Dan selalu je aku tulis pasal cintan cintun. What can i say, i am a very romantic person. Kawal la seketat mana pun, kadang-kadang tertulis jugak jiwang-jiwang ni. Tapi kan sayang-sayang sekalian, sejiwang-jiwang diriku yang kecil lagi comel ni, jiwang lagi korang rupa-rupanya. Dan kadang-kadang tu buat aku naik meluat bila baca. Sebagai contoh nya ni haaa : 

~Hai awk, sy rindu awk ah. Jm laa mcm dulu balik :'/
~ Alangkah indahnya dunia jika hanya kita berdua dan tiada yg lain disisi mu 
~ I was born to tell you i love you 
~Eh awop,sayee sayangg awop larr :D
~ waiting f0r y0ur cll h0neyy ♥ :'D
~sy syg awk ketat2 
~owh mama, saya mau kawen!! 
~biarlah saya hodoh skali pun, asalkan awak tetap syg sy..kan awak, kan..
~i miss u bie..
~bobo, makan skit please..bb risau la
~Saya terpakse sembunyikan sakit saya tuk beri kekuatan pada awk syg,saya nak jadi kerusi yang boleh awak sandar :)
~ sayang saya belikan saya kasut 'vincci' larr hri nihh~~thx sayang~~ilysmkk♥♥

Well itu antaranya la. Maybe tak sejiwang mana sebab kalau aku letak yang betul-betul jiwang tahap extravaganza nanti termuntah plak korang baca entry aku ni. Ok next pulak post yang berunsur kan desperate. Girls, why are you so desperate bout men? Takkan la korang tak pernah dgr frasa-frasa ni, "no man, no cry", "no women, men cry", "a woman, without her, man is nothing", "don't be a woman who needs a man, be a woman a man needs" dan banyak lagi lah. Tipu la kan kalu you all tak pernah dengar or baca those quotes. So kalau dah pernah dengar or dah pernah baca, kenapa you all still so desperate?? Malu la wey. Kita ni perempuan, maruah kita tinggi okay~  
So bila you all tulis pape yang berunsurkan desperado ni, well aku tak tahu la apa orang lain punya pendapat, tapi bagi aku macam tak sesuai la dearest sekalian. Macam korang ni kemaruk sangat. Macam tak ada benda lain nak buat melainkan bercinta. Yes its normal to fall in love, and cinta tu kan suatu nikmat yang Allah berikan untuk kita, tapi tanggungjawab lain tu jangan la dicicirkan. Kalau lelaki tulis jiwang-jiwang and desperate-desperado ni aku tak kesah sangat, yelah sebab laki, "no women, men cry" kan..hahahha.. Well ni la antara contoh wall post desperado yang nak aku share and korang nila-nilai la sendiri :


~Bilakah masanya akan dapatku terima ketiadaan mu syg?
~miss the old time that we had fun together.. i will do anything to be with u back :'(
~Serious, aku rindu dulu. Kita yg dulu. Masa yg dulu. Tapi dulu tetap dulu. Sekarang takkan jadi sama mcm dulu. Kita cuba laa ubah jadi mcm dulu, tp takkan berjaya. Redha dan pasrah. Ambil yg dulu jadikan kenangan, kita dah ada haluan masing masing
~ its hard to say goodbye :(
~Hey boy, I really wanna be with you, cause you just my type... Tapi, susah lah :'(
~ I'll love you until you love me :')
~ Loving you is a easy job . But 4getting you is not that easy . :'(
~ Saya nyanyi,saya ketawe depan lappy tadi.. saya ingt sy tgh skype ngn awak.. Khayalan je tu,miss   you sayang :'(
~ Sy hanya mampu intai awak jauh2 je, cukup sekadar pengubat rindu
~Sedih nya hati bila tgk awak bahagia sekarang
~the reason i cry is u
~ penat sy kejar awak, tapi awak terus lari n x pedulikan sy..ok fine la kalu awk dh lupakan sy


And many more. Ok jiwang sudah, desperate-desperado pun dh, now is mulut celupar tahap rasa macam nak dicili padikan je mulut tu. Haaa tau kan cili padi tu sangat lah extremely pedas. Boleh bocor perut aku kalau hari-hari makan cili padi walaupun aku dan cili padi adalah best friend, tapi disebabkan gastric juice yang sangat jealous kan keakraban aku dan cili padi, so kitorang terpaksa la berenggang skali-skala.





Haaa seperti quote dia atas ni, dah terang lagi kan bersuluh, dan mengukuhkan lagi hujah kita pada issue ini bahawasanya personaliti itu penting dari raut wajah. So korang yang comel-comel sekalian, tak ada gunanya muka comel bujur sirih, pipi putih gebu, dahi licin, bibir merah bak buah delima, tapi kalau tulis status yang mencarut-carut bagai. Seriously serious i'm telling you. Kadang-kadang aku baca wall post korang ni, sampai nak mngucap. Bukan sekali mengucap, tapi berkali-kali sambil gosok-gosok dadaku. Yelah terkejut KOT bila baca apa yang korang tulis. Tak ada langsung ciri-ciri wanita melayu terakhir yang diidam-idamkan oleh setiap lelaki tak kira zaman terawal or terakhir. Mana perginya sifat lembut, penyayang, dan pemalu korang? Adakah zaman semakin modern dan teknologi semakin maju, dan alam semakin tercemar, sifat-sifat keperempuanan lagi kewanitaan itu harus turut pudar? No babe, no!!Sedih. Sangat sedih bila aku baca wall post korang yang korang budget bila korang tulis macam tu, umpama diri korang itu hebat. Tak ada hebat nya wey. Kalau muka dah cun, tapi hati busuk, percakapan tak jaga, tak ada hebatnya. Malahan, you all akan dipandang hina. Tak percaya? Haaa cuba la baca ni :


~Min0h ! X puas aty nan aq . Jyeahh . Maseyh byok sygg . Lau mum na kt diye ckp ar . Aq tkmo eyh kt ye 0ww . F*ck up bitchy . > <
~ Spe na mamp0s . Jum ik0t ite trjun sungai 
~ Damn y0uu bitchy . Think y0u H0T hah ? What ? Mean girl like y0u will get n0thing . > <
~ Tak best langsung hot fm tranum,mcm taik je !
~sumpah aq benci kw° pmpuan giler kipak a kw nihh:-!
~ Jangan tanya aq kenapa aq dah berubah kw yg ajar aq jd cam ni setan :-!
~ FUCKER punye betina ! ! ! !xgune betul ! ! ! ! !

Oooopppp, cukup-cukup tak boleh banyak-banyak nanti ada yang kena heart attack pulak. Haaa, amacam, mengucap sambil gosok-gosok dada tak? Percaya atau tak, tu semua ditulis oleh kaum perempuan. Kalau aku jadi lelaki pun takut nak ngorat and tackle-tackle you all yang sememangnya comel.


Ok pastu nak komen plak pasal ejaan korang yang so ewww ewww dan menyusahkan aku ni nak baca apa yang korang tulis. Aku ni pantang sikit orang yang eja ntah pape, yelah cikgu BM aku masa sekolah menengah dulu garang wey!!Kecut perut kalau belajar BM, rasa macam nak sorok bawah meja pun ada. Susah wey aku ni nak baca, dah la jiwang, desperado, mencarut pulak tu, ditambah pulak lagi dengan ejaan yang sememang nya ntah pape. Sebagai contoh :


~makan ----> mam
~saya ----> saia
~nak ----> na
~siapa ----> sapeww
~suka ----> sukew
~bencinya ----> bencinyeww
~tanya ----> tanyew
~pernah ----> pena
~jadi ----> jdy
~tak nak ----> ta na
~duduk ----> dox
~kalau ----> law

Hmmmm macam-macam la korang ni. Cuba la aplikasi kan sikit ejaan dan tatabahasa yang korang belajar sejak tadika tu. 


So rasanya tu je kot, for now..hahaha.. Aku nak kutuk and kritik banyak-banyak pun, yelah, aku sedar la diri aku ni pun tak lah baik mana. Tapi tujuan murni aku just nak share, dan nasihat apa yang perlu dan bukanlah nak mengaibkan atau nak memalukan sesiapa. Apa yang baik kita jadikan teladan, apa yang tak baik, kita jadikan sempadan. Ambil yang jernih, buang yang keruh. Dan sepanjang aku menulis entry ni, aku nak mohon maaf kalau ada di antara yang membaca ni terasa or what so ever. Dan aku juga nak ucapkan terima kasih dan juga sorry buat siapa-siapa yang aku kopi dan pasta kan wall post diorang untuk dijadikan contoh di sini tanpa meminta izin. Like i said, niat sebagai nak menasihati, dan bukan nak memalukan or nak mengaibkan.


Bonda marah? 
(ala-ala cerita 3 Abdul)

Tak, bonda tak marah sayang. Just terkesima. So bagi sesiapa yang termakan cili padi setelah baca entry ni, jangan disimpan dalam hati. Instead, berubah la sebab masih belum terlambat. And bagi sesiapa yang tak terasa pedasnya entry ni, jangan la pulak you all tiba-tiba nak berjinak-jinak nak cuba apa yang tak sepatutnya. Tapi selalu lah memperingatkan diri sendiri. You all kan dah besar, dah tahu mana baik and mana buruk. So segala apa kesilapan yang ada pada entry kali ini, ku susun jari tangan and kaki ku memohon maaf. Jika tersilap kata, terkasar bahasa, maafkan lah diriku ini. Sesungguh nya yang baik itu datang dari Allah dan buruk itu datang dari diriku sendiri.




Dari Abdullah bin ‘Amr radhiallahu ‘anhuma bahwa Rasulullah Shalallahu ‘alaihiwassalam bersabda:
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Dunia ini adalah perhiasan/kesenangan dan sebaik-baik perhiasan/kesenangan dunia adalah wanita yang shalihah.” (HR. Muslim,Nasa’i, Ibnu Majah dan Ahmad)

Saturday, 28 January 2012

There is No One Else Like You

Assalamualaikum...

Who cares if I'm a little bit different from the others

Have you ever look at someone else and just feel like, "if only i can be as cool as that person"? Or have you ever wonder that how come such a simple fella yet can be so extremely, awesomely, super duper famous? And then if you have felt something like these before, i'll bet you will look at yourself in the mirror and ask, "mirror, mirror on the wall, where and what am i lacking of?" Then suddenly you will feel less confident when you are in crowd, feel isolated when you are in public. And i won't be surprised if any one of you will try to change yourself in and out, pretending to be someone else just to get people's attention and impressed others. If you do, then STOP!! 





Why the hell you wanna change yourself and pretend to be someone else? Don't you know by doing so, you will make others to feel uncomfortable and feel sick when they are with you. Even you yourself will feel uneasy, never mind others.

Everyone is different, even the DNA is unique for each and everyone of us! 

Everyone is different. Different in personality, different in outfit and dressing, different in style, and others. And why should we be ashamed of ourselves if we are a bit weird, bizarre or just simply different from others. Just imagine how if we live in a world where everyone is the same. Our face, body size, the way we talk, the way we dress, and everything is the same? Not as bright and colorful as we thought it would be, right? No uniqueness. And worst, life will be so bored!

If you used to be laughed by your friends due to the things that u did different from the others, don't feel down, but you should join the laughter instead. Make those as the most memorable moments in your life where you could never stop laughing and smiling whenever you remind yourself bout them. And to make it special, since you are different among your friends as well as your surroundings, make that difference in you as your trademark, where people will recognize you just simply because of who you are and not because of whom you pretend to be. And be proud of it because that is what so special about you that others don't have!


If you already start pretending to be like everybody else, then it is not too late to stop. If you are just going to take the step of pretending, then don't proceed. Its not so cool to pretend just to make others to accept and like you. You just only fooling around with yourself. If you cannot accept who you really are, then don't expect others to do so even when you are pretending. Because it will be like so obvious, since whatever you do, it doesn't go so naturally.
Then, my dear Bonda, why does for someone that is just so simple but can be quite famous? 
Well it is just simply because they just be what they do best, being themselves. They don't even care what people will think bout them. As long as they are happy with what they are doing.You may look at them that way, that they are so super duper extra extremely awesome, but what you don't know, is that maybe they are looking at you the same way! And they are wondering the same thing when they are looking at you.

So dear readers, remember that there is only one of you. There is no such thing as photocopy. Even our fingerprints are different!

"Bukan sebagaimana yang di­sangka itu, bahkan kami berkuasa
menyusun dengan  sempurnanya segala tulang - tulang jarinya,
dan tulang  yang lebih halus dari yang lain".  
( Surah Al - Qiyamah ayat 4 )


Enjoy being yourself! Things will go the way they should that suits you very well. Yes, it is true that you cannot force someone to like or hate you. If people like you for just because of you, then live with them. If people hate you, then just simply walk away and leave them. And who knows, there might be a person that will just simply falls for you and loves you just because there is no one else like you.

Each of us has a unique set of gifts which are talents, passions, and abilities. When we tap into those gifts and share them with the world, we truly become empowered. Give the world your greatest gift ^^, 

Thursday, 26 January 2012

Life As a Power Rangers Sekolah (PRS)

Assalamualaikum..

Power Rangers?? Yes, as we all know, Power Rangers used to help people by saving the world from evil villains, tak kesah la monster ke, orang jahat ke or what so ever. Aku pun tak tahu sangat pasal Power Rangers because when i was a little girl, i only interested in Sailor Moon, Dragon Ball, Doremon and Shin Chan. Tapi apa yang pasti, Power Rangers ni can be considered as one of our heroes in TV shows.

Then what is the difference between Power Rangers and Power Rangers Sekolah (PRS)??

Well have you ever heard of PRS?? Yes, Pembimbing Rakan Sebaya. The place where you can tell all your problems and worry not bout your secrets. Walaupun kadang-kadang tu masalah yang kita hadapi tak dapat diselesaikan, at least ringan la sikit beban tu after u talk to someone, right? Well, sharing is caring.

I started join PRS since end of form 4 till in matriculation. Then now, taking my degree, i stop joining this executive body. You know why?

While being one of PRS family members, many of my friends came n seek for my ears to listen, and my brain to memorize their problems' chronologies as well as advices, hoping that i can help a bit in their difficulties. Kalau ikut kan procedure, they can only came to see me during my duty hours which is during prep. But somehow, despite from being a part-time PRS, i am willing to be a full-time PRS since they came to see me like anytime they want. In the morning, afternoon, evening, night or even midnight! So i have to get myself ready 24/7..hahaha.. But really, i dont mind even when i have to listen to them at midnight. Seeing them leave with a smile on their face, feeling relief after sharing and trying to think the best solution for their problems with me, already makes me feel happy and i can sleep peacefully. And if i am lucky, i can get a free hug as well!! hahaha..joking2

Then 1 day, a thought came into my mind. I dont want to be PRS just only in that executive body, but i want to be the real PRS. To be a real hero to my friends. Help whoever in need. I know i dont have any super powers but thanks to Allah SWT cause at least i have a pair of ears to listen to all my friends problems no matter what the situation are, a pair of eyes that will cry together with them, a pair of shoulders for my friends to land their head on when crying, a heart that will cares for them by giving advices, my self-experiences that can burn up their spirit, as well as a secret box as an extra organ in me to keep all their secrets.

Friend in need is a friend indeed..

So whenever you have problems, kalau malu sangat nak jumpa dengan counselor, mesti you all akan cari PRS. So PRS ni kalau difikir-fikirkan, is like your heroes jugak la. And since senario ini slalu blaku masa zaman sekolah (kat university, kolej or mana-mana pusat pnegajian skalipun actually), thats why it is called Power Rangers Sekolah.

So my question is .....

Do you really need to be a PRS if you wanna help your friends??

Haaaa... Setiap orang boleh je jadi PRS untuk kawan-kawan mereka. And kalu nak diikutkan, setiap orang ada PRS nya yang tersendiri. Even me myself have my own "tempayan" untuk diluahkan segala apa yang terbuku di hati. So thats why i stop joining PRS as an executive body. Why to join one if you already be one?

Ceh, time susah cari kita, time senang, batang hidung pun tak nampak!!

Well, pernah tak experience something like this before?? Kawan kita tu kalu ada masalah je, cari kita..ada masalah je, cari kita..cari kita je, ada masalah.. Pernah tak? Sampai kalau korang jumpa kawan korang ni mesti terdetik, "ni mesti ada masalah, kalau tak, masakan mahu cari aku"..haaaa.. Kalau nak jadi super hero, kena la ikhlas kan hati tu. Jangan mengharapkan sebarang balasan. Kita pun tahu Allah itu Maha Adil, so apa-apa yg kita buat kalau degan ikhlas, insyaAllah walaupun dengan sebesar zarah sekalipun, Allah akan balas kerana sesungguh nya Dia lah Maha Pemurah, lagi Maha Mengasihani.  

فَمَن يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ ذَرَّةٍ خَيْرًا يَرَهُ وَمَن يَعْمَلْ مِثْقَالَ ذَرَّةٍ شَرًّا يَرَهُ
Maksudnya : "Barangsiapa mengerjakan kebaikan walau sebesar zarah pun, nescaya dia akan melihat (balasan) nya. Dan barangsiapa yang mengerjakan kejahatan walau sebesar zarah pun, nescaya dia akan melihat (balasan) nya pula.” ( Surah Az-Zalzalah ayat 7-8 )


وَتَحْسَبُونَهُ هَيِّنًا وَهُوَ عِندَ اللَّهِ عَظِيمٌ
Maksudnya : “Dan kamu menganggapnya ringan sahaja, padahal di sisi Allah adalah besar.”        ( Surah An-Nur ayat 15 ).
  


So open up your heart, help whoever is in needed. Maybe 1 day, your friends might help you at the moment when you really2 needed someone. 

 



Friday, 20 January 2012

Every Cloud Has a Silver Lining

Assalamualaikum.

Dear readers, hope that you will have a very bright day today and the up coming days ahead. However, if any of your days is not as bright as you hope it should be, just keep your head high, smile, and don't feel so down like your life is going to end at that moment.

Everything happens for a reason, or maybe lots of reasons that we might not know at that particular time. Doesn't matter either the situation causes you to feel happy, or sad, or both. If bad things happen, they are tests by Allah SWT to test us either we will seek help from Him and become a stronger, more matured person or not. The harder the test, the more Allah loves you. Feeling hard in memorizing all the information in your studies, being dumped or cheated by your love ones, your face is full of pimples and what so ever that can cause you trouble and feel sad, bad, frustrated, or angry, please say 'Astaghfirullahalazim' or 'ya Latif', insyaAllah you will feel calm in no time. If you are feeling scared, try saying 'ya Qahar', insyaAllah all your frightens will disappeared. You might also wanna try to read surah al-Radh just in case u are seeking for His guidance (petunjuk). Trust me, alhamdulillah it works for me all the time!





أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ وَلَقَدْ فَتَنَّا الَّذِينَ مِنْ قَبْلِهِمْ فَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا وَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ الْكَاذِبِينَ.


Maksudnya; Apakah manusia itu mengira bahwa mereka dibiarkan (saja) mengatakan: "Kami Telah beriman", sedang mereka tidak diuji lagi? Dan Sesungguhnya kami Telah menguji orang-orang yang sebelum mereka, Maka Sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan Sesungguhnya dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta.  


What if good things happen? Well they are also tests by Allah SWT to us, to test us either we are a grateful person or not. For examples, you are getting high grades in your examination, you are in a good condition and healthy, you are getting promoted or just simply you are having a smooth skin without any pimple on your face or even falling in love, everything that makes u feel happy can be considered as nikmat, and always remember to say 'Alhamdulillah' (all praise and thanks be to Allah). For an extra, do some sujud syukur and solat sunat dhuha as well. 




So dear my beloved readers, if you feel happy, be grateful bout it. If you feel bad, learn from it. Allah has planned our life perfectly, so we just have to go with the flow. We might not knowing the silver for each cloud, it may take days, weeks, months or even years for us to really understand the reasons behind each everything that happened, but 1 thing for sure, Allah is the best planner. So have faith in Him. Never stop praying no matter how happy or sad you are. Maybe you will smile for today, but who knows tomorrow you might cry, or just simply vice versa.



إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ
  Hanya Engkaulah yang kami sembah, dan hanya kepada Engkaulah kami meminta pertolongan. 
(al-Fatihah, ayat:5)

Khas buat SAHABAT ku, duhai Orkid

Assalamualaikum buat pembaca yang lagi hot, cantik, cun, super duper handsome, crazy mind, gila kentang and what so ever. Today is about one of my bestie, aka SAHABAT which is Fariha Muhamad, pemilik "belog si tinggi".

Ok, i used to call her orkid, sbb dulu pernah la bercita-cita nak bagi nama anak aku as Orkid, tp bila tengok-tengok, dalam banyak-banyak anak bonda, Fari ni lah yang serasa-rasanya macam comel kalau dipanggil Orkid, so melekat lah nama tu.

I know its already 1 week after your birthday, but i hope that it is not too late to wish you again in here. Happy Birthday Fariha aka Orkid, may Allah always be with you in sadness and happiness and bless you in everything you do ^^,

Dalam banyak-banyak prank yang pernah aku buat yang sememangnya dasyat lagi hebat, luar biasa, wow, prank birthday yang aku and the geng buat untuk Fari kali ni walaupun nampak macam sinple, tapi ni lah yang the most 'gilest'  rasa-rasanya. We made a video for her. So lets check it out yo~




Well sepanjang proses nak menyiapkan masterpiece ni, macam-macam perkara yang berlaku. Firstly, betul-betul sebelum filming start. Aku suruh lah si Orkid ni call since dia dapat free call, ingatkan nak buat surprise la sbb time tu Ain which is one of our SAHABAT ada kat UM, at least in 1 call, Orkid boleh la bercakap dengan Ain dan juga Bonda. Tapi nanti takut she smell something fishy, so x jadi lah. So surprise tu digantikan dengan Azreen, salah seorang ahli SAHABAT juga. Pastu Orkid pula tanya aku ada kat mana, terpaksa lah cover line and menipu sunat cakap yang aku ada kat dalam bilik, padahal masa tu tengah ada kat kawasan pengambaran.

Malam tu pula, Orkid call lagi sebab dah janji nak bergossip dengan dia. Yes kitorang memang kaki gossip tapi kitorang bergossip perihal diri sendiri je, tak mengumpat pasal orang lain pun. Tapi time Orkid call, aku and the film crew tengah asyik meng'edit' video tu. So aku pun keluar bilik, bertapa di tangga and again terpaksa cover line as well as menipu sunat, cakap kat Orkid yang aku tengah study sebab ada paper hari Isnin. Waaah Orkid, Bonda really really really sorry.. Please forgive your dear Bonda.

Dah bergayut 2 jam lebih, puas cerita sensasi aku digerudi, digali, dikorek oleh Orkid, aku pun masuk bilik. Nampak lah film crew tengah duduk bersantai, pasang video-video lama, nampak muka masing-masing penat. "Ni mesti dah siap" kata hatiku. Then aku pun duduk lah sebelah Ain, tapi dia buat derk je. Tiada nur kegembiraan di wajahnya. So to end the suspend, aku tanya lah, "so amacam, dh siap?". Dengan sadis, pilu, kecewa dan sama citarasa dengannya mereka pun tunjuk lah kat aku video tu, penuh dgn tanda seru (!) dalam segi tiga warna kuning. Apa pasal pun aku tak tahu. Simbol tu aku hanya jumpa bila aku dapat connect internet tapi tak boleh nak access or time battery laptop memang dah nak kondem sangat-sangat. Ain hampir putus asa wey, 1st time tengok dia tak bermaya begitu. Sedih. Tapi aku tak puas hati, kesian tengok anak-anak lembik tak bermaya macam tu. So dengan lafaz bismillahirrahmanirrahim, aku try la play semula video tu. Alhamdulillah, simbol tu hilang ntah la ke mana. Terserlah cahaya keriangan di wajah Ain dan Azreen. Waaah, comel, macam bonda mereka..hahaha.. then the vidoe tu kitorang continue buat sampai lah ke subuh, akhirnya siap jugak. Habis tenaga dah masa tu sebab duk gelak sana, duk gelak sini.

Tu dia behind-the-scene pasal video ni. Owh and ramai yang tertipu part touching tu. Dear Orkid, Bonda tak nangis pun sayang sebab i know, you are a strong girl, like your dear Bonda. Lagipun, nampak kot Bonda tengah cover senyum..hahaha..And siapa cakap bonda x pernah nak ajak Orkid, dah nak ajak then Orkid asyik-asyik sebok dengan assignment. Tapi tak pe, demi anak bangsa dan juga negara, aku tak kesah, asal kan Fari dapat jadi seorang guru yang berjaya. InsyaAllah.

Pasal aktiviti makan breakfast di cafe tu, hmmmm...hahahhaha..Yes Orkid, Bonda pun xleh nak lupakan agenda tu. Tergelak besar bila dengar lelaki kat dalam radio tu tak habis-habis sebut HOOOO OOOO with kelantanese style sampai DJ radio pun ikut skali. Lama kita tak buat kan Orkid. Next time hang out, make sure kita buat, ok?

Well lets see. Rasanya dah takde pape dah kot. Actually kae, ada je nak dihuraikan tapi cukup lah sampai di sini. Nak cerita macam-macam pun, we have our own privacy kan. So my dear Orkid, all the best in whatever you do. Akan ku kirimkan doa untukmu dari jauh..

p/s: Bonda loves Orkid :D

Tuesday, 17 January 2012

Saat Diriku Menerima Hidayah

Assalamualaikum..

Since this is my 1st entry, so its better if i write something bout my life, how i changed, hope that it'll give you some inspiration to change and become a better person. I'm not saying that i am a good person, well since i am still learning, and still changing to be a better person, from time to time, and hopefully will always be, till my last breath. InsyaAllah...

It all begins when i was in form1. Actually at that time, baru je pindah ke Kuala Terengganu from Kuala Lumpur. A girl who used to live in a big city, then suddenly have to live in a small town, quite a shock for me at that time. Well i still can adapt even though there were no malls there in KT.. hahaha.. joking2.. Thats not the main point. What i'm trying to say is, i had to enter a school where it is a compulsory for you to wear a big jilbab, selabuh paras siku, tu pun minimum. And it drives me crazy because even cikgu2 n certain ustazah kat situ pun pakai tudung biasa2, x de la selabuh students. Its hard for me to accept it at first. Kan dah cakap, aku ni x lah baik mana pun.

As the time passed by, i got to know bout hand socks when one of my friends wear it. Tiba2, ntah datang dari mana, i felt like want to wear hand socks too. So i ask my aunt in KB, if she knows where to buy it (aku ni jenis x keluar rumah, so xtau pasal kedai2 ni). Then my aunt pun bawa la pergi satu kedai ni, and i was so excited. Since that, alhamdulillah, till now, i still wear them, never leave them. See, it happened suddenly. Since they come in many designs and colours, u can make fashion with them, so no excuse la kan kalu you all nak pakai hand socks ni, kan. There are no such thing as "hand socks, so old fashion". And just for your info, your hands which at the hairless part, the color of the skin actually almost similar to your breast color. So cute2 girls out there, please kalau tak nak pakai hand socks pun, tutup lengan anda ok.

 Next is how i start to wear socks. Well actually, i dont really feel comfortable when wearing shoes without any socks. Rasa macam berwap je kaki ni. So since i love to wear shoes rather than sandals, i got no choice but have to wear socks as well. And alhamdulillah, even if i wear sandals, stokin tetap di kaki ku..hahaha.. Bila duk kat asrama masa form4, issue pakai stokin or pemaksaan memakai stokin is not my main problem. And 1 more thing, it feels uneasy if people could see your feet. Orang akan tahu warna kulit kaki kita, ada kudis ke tak, susunan jari jemari kaki, warna tumit dan lain-lain lagi lah and do you know, all of that have their own meaning. So macam scary dan sangat2 lah tak selesa kalu orang boleh tengok kaki kita especially boys. That is one of my reason why i wear socks instead of letting me myself barefooted.

Ok so kita pergi semula kepada issue jilbab (tudung labuh) tadi. Yes, i wear it since form1 but only at school. Kalau keluar pergi mana-mana, i just wear tudung bawal yang kebiasaannya jarang tu. One day in matrik, i looked at my surroundings. There are 2 groups of students that i used to observe, one which is wearing jilbab and the other is simple tudung or shawl. But somehow, the jilbab group always caught my attention. Nampak sedap mata memandang. Nampak manis. I always thought, if i am a man, i will choose those girls who wear jilbab as my wife. Why? Sebab sedap mata memandang. Tak terdedah aurat mereka. Yes you all pakai tudung, ada yang tutup dada, but do you think that sufficient enough? Well kalu dari pandangan depan maybe la, tapi dari pandangan tepi or sisi you all, kalu tak cukup labuh, sure akan nampak bentuk dada anda tu, so adakah tu boleh dikategorikan sebagai menutup aurat? Thats my point of view if i am a man, since i am a woman, so what i thought at that time is, aku akan lebih selamat kalu berpakaian sedemikian. Tiada mata-mata liar yang akan memandang tubuh ku. Tapi, aku x cukup baik untuk pakai tudung labuh. Banyak lagi perkara lain yang perlu diperbaiki, tak nak la nanti orang cakap "dia tu, tudung je labuh, tapi perangai..."..haaaa.. Then, when will i get the chance to wear jilbab? Kalau nak tunggu berubah semuanya, sampai bila-bila pun i will never gonna have the chance to wear it. So why not if we just terbalik kan keadaan, that is what came in my mind. Why not i just wear jilbab, then change the rest later on slowly. Macam orang solat, tak semuanya baik kan. But what i'm really, absolutely sure is that, sesiapa yang jaga solatnya, amalannya juga akan terjaga. Apa yang nak disamakan is, if you jaga your outfit, the way you dress, somehow it'll influence your attitude. And yes, my theory works. Alhamdulillah, after wearing hijab, slowly the rest of my attitude also change. Hey but dont you worry. I am a very crazy person, siapa cakap pakai tudung labuh mesti kena ayu, sopan-santun kan..hahaha.. I still can be a hyperactive person. And who said that if you wear jilbab, it will limits your fashion? Owh man, thats SO WRONG!! That statement is so NOT COOL!! Look at me, i still can wear beautiful clothes, be as fashionable as i want to but of course la yang mengikut syarak seperti x jarang, x ketat dan lain-lain lagi. By the way, if you wear baju yang ketat-ketat, men so not fall for you..hahaha..no seriously not a joke, they only want to have fun with you.

"Wahai nabi (Muhammad), suruhlah kepada isteri-isteri kamu, anak-anak perempuan kamu dan wanita-wanita beriman agar melabuhkan jilbab (pakaian bagi menutup seluruh tubuh) mereka (semasa mereka keluar), cara yang demikian itu lebih sesuai untuk mereka dikenal (sebagai perempuan yang baik-baik) maka dengan itu mereka tidak diganggu. Dan (ingatlah) Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Pengasihani (terhadap dosa kamu di masa lalu)."
( Surah al-Azhab, ayat 59 )